Honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor are all valuable characteristics that contribute to success in life. However, they are dwarfed by sensitivity, the most important characteristic that one can have to succeed in life. A sensitive person is aware of the way his or her actions affect others. In particular, a sensitive person understands the place of honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor. Sensitive people know when they have to tell the truth and when they had better tell a white lie. Generally speaking, Honesty is the best policy. However, this does not preclude important exceptions. Can a doctor be so cruel as to tell a hopeful middle-aged patient that he is terminally ill? Can a person be son insensitive as to tell his friend that his new house is very shabby? Can a man be so absent-minded as to tell his girl-friend that her expensive new dress looks horrible on her? In such situations, a sensitive person may tell a white lie instead of giving the cruel truth. Sensitive people also know when it is good to show their intelligence and when it is better to give others a chance. Many people are very intelligent, but how many of us use our intelligence in a sensitive way? We are always trying to show off our intelligence and make other people look silly. Such vaunting of our intelligence earns for us not admiration, but disgust. Sometimes we might have to say, I might be wrong. please tell me if I am wrong This acknowledgement, even though humble, will most likely earn for us respect. Finally, sensitive people know when they can use humor and when they had better stay quiet. A sense of humor is a wonderful thing to have, but different people make jokes about different things. Something that is funny to one person may be very offensive to another person. For example, an employee may laugh at the mistakes of his or her boss, but an outsider, however humorous, may be resented for doing so. To sum up, sensitive people can make others feel comfortable by taking into account the way their actions affect others. They understand that people differ from each other and characteristics such as honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor need to be put to use sensitively according to each situation.
诚实、智慧和幽默感是有价值的特性，有助于人生的成功。然而，他们与灵敏度，一个能在生活中取得成功的最重要的特征。一个敏感的人会意识到他或她的行为对他人的影响。特别是一个敏感的人，懂得诚实、聪明和幽默感的地方。敏感的人知道什么时候他们必须说出真相，当他们有更好的说一个善意的谎言。一般而言，诚实是最好的政策，然而，这并不排除重要的例外。医生会如此残忍地告诉一个有希望的中年病人，他是绝症吗？一个人能不能对他的朋友说他的新房子很破旧？一个人可以这么心不在焉地告诉他的女朋友，她昂贵的新衣服看起来很可怕吗？在这种情况下，一个敏感的人可能会说一个善意的谎言，而不是给残酷的真相。敏感的人也知道什么时候能展示他们的智慧，什么时候最好给别人一个机会。很多人都很聪明，但我们有多少人用我们的智力在一个敏感的方式？我们总是试图炫耀自己的智慧，让别人看起来很傻。这样的吹嘘我们的智力为我们不赞赏，但厌恶。有时我们可能不得不说，我可能是错误的。请告诉我，如果我错了，这承认，即使卑微，将最有可能赢得我们尊重。最后，敏感的人知道，当他们可以使用幽默，当他们有更好的保持安静。幽默感是一件很好的事情，但不同的人会对不同的事情开玩笑。一个人对另一个人的攻击很有趣。例如，一个员工可能嘲笑他或她的老板的错误，但是一个局外人，但是幽默，可能会憎恨这样做。总之，敏感的人可以让别人感觉舒适，考虑到他们的行为影响他人的方式。他们了解到，人们不同于其他的和特点，如诚实，智慧和幽默感，需要使用敏感地根据每一种情况。